Life Lessons

Things I learned as a caregiver Upon my retirement as a museum director, I decided to supplement my income by becoming a caregiver. Both daughters work as caregivers, and suggested I give it a try. In our area (as I suspect in most places) there is a great need, so I...

The (Awkward) Kiss

I had a dream the other night, taking me back to a street in a town that I grew up on. In the dream I encountered several people from my much younger days and they were all anxious to greet me, a reunion of sorts. One of the first to embrace me was a family member who...

It All Began with a Peanut

Originally published July 2008 “Peanut, can you come out and play?” I asked my poodle-mix as I knocked on the door of the mailbox.  The hinged door burst open and Peanut jumped into my arms, tail wagging and tongue licking.  I giggled and hugged my pet, then stuffed...

I AM Happy

Originally published September 2009 “You will never be happy.” That’s what my father-in-law told me recently.  I was sharing how in the near future I hope to find myself and my husband out of Las Vegas and living in a place that: * Is green with real,...

The “Kid” is Mine

Originally published January 2010 Back in 1985 I was a newly single mother of two small daughters. I had to find a way to support myself so I went back to the restaurant that I worked at when I first moved to Simi Valley. I am not one to feel regret but I know that...